The New York congresswoman took to the House floor Thursday to address a male GOP colleague who called her a 'f***ing b*tch' earlier in the week.
Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (D-NY) took to the House floor Thursday morning to chastise Rep. Ted Yoho (R-FL), who earlier in the week had verbally accosted her on the stairs of the United States Capitol after she spoke out about the links between poverty, unemployment, and crime.
That exchange culminated with Yoho calling Ocasio-Cortez a "fucking bitch."
In her speech, Ocasio-Cortez said she decided to speak out after Yoho issued a non-apology on the House floor on Wednesday, in which he invoked his wife and daughters to deny that he used the misogynistic slur against the congresswoman.
"Having been married for 45 years with two daughters, I'm very cognizant of my language," Yoho said Wednesday. "The offensive name-calling words attributed to me by the press were never spoken to my colleagues, and if they were construed that way, I apologize for the misunderstanding."
But Ocasio-Cortez didn't buy Yoho's apology, and took issue with him using his wife and daughters as a shield for his behavior.
"Having a daughter does not make a man decent," Ocasio-Cortez said. "Having a wife does not make a decent man. Treating people with dignity and respect makes a decent man."
Republicans have worked to villify Ocasio-Cortez since she was first elected to Congress in 2018, often referring to her in offensive or racist terms.
However, she said Thursday that Yoho was the first member of Congress to verbally assault her, saying he put his finger in her face and called her "disgusting," "crazy," and "dangerous."
Ocasio-Cortez, who worked as a bartender, among other things, before she became a member of Congress, said she has "tossed men out of bars that used language like Rep. Yoho's."
"I have worked a working-class job. I have waited tables in restaurants. I have ridden the subway. I have walked the streets in New York City. And this kind of language is not new," she said. "...This is not new. And that is the problem."
A video and transcript of Ocasio-Cortez's full remarks can be found below.
REP. ALEXANDRIA OCASIO-CORTEZ (D-NY): About two days ago, I was walking up the steps of the Capitol, when Rep. Yoho suddenly turned a corner — and he was accompanied by Rep. Roger Williams — and accosted me on the steps right here in front of our nation's Capitol. I was minding my own business, walking up the steps, and Rep. Yoho put his finger in my face. He called me disgusting. He called me crazy. He called me out of my mind. And he called me dangerous. And then he took a few more steps, and after I had recognized his comments as rude, he walked away and said, "I'm rude? You're calling me rude?"
I took a few steps ahead, and I walked inside and cast my vote because my constituents send me here each and every day to fight for them and to make sure that they are able to keep a roof over their head, that they're able to feed their families, and that they're able to carry their lives with dignity.
I walked back out and there were reporters in the front of the Capitol, and in front of reporters, Rep. Yoho called me — and I quote — "a fucking bitch."
These were the words that Rep. Yoho levied against a congresswoman, a congresswoman that not only represents New York's 14th Congressional District but every congresswoman and every woman in this country. Because all of us have had to deal with this in some form, some way, some shape, at some point in our lives. And I want to be clear that Rep. Yoho's comments were not deeply hurtful or piercing to me. Because I have worked a working-class job. I have waited tables in restaurants. I have ridden the subway. I have walked the streets in New York City. And this kind of language is not new. I have encountered words uttered by Mr. Yoho and men uttering the same words as Mr. Yoho while I was being harassed in restaurants. I have tossed men out of bars that have used language like Mr. Yoho's. And I have encountered this type of harassment riding the subway in New York City.
This is not new. And that is the problem.
Mr. Yoho was not alone. He was walking shoulder to shoulder with Rep. Roger Williams. And that's when we start to see that this issue is not about one incident. It is cultural. It is a culture of lack of impunity, of accepting of violence and violent language against women, and an entire structure of power that supports that. Because not only have I been spoken to disrespectfully, particularly by members of the Republican Party and elected officials in the Republican Party — not just here but the president of the United States last year told me to go home, to another country, with the implication that I don't even belong in America.
The governor of Florida, Gov. DeSantis, before I even was sworn in, called me a "whatever that is." Dehumanizing language is not new. And what we are seeing is that incidents like these are happening in a pattern. This is a pattern of an attitude towards women and dehumanization of others. So while I was not deeply hurt or offended by little comments that are made, when I was reflecting on this, I honestly thought that I was just going to pack it up and go home. It's just another day, right?
But then yesterday, Rep. Yoho decided to come to the floor of the House of Representatives and make excuses for his behavior. And that I could not let go. I could not allow my nieces, I could not allow the little girls that I go home to, I could not allow victims of verbal abuse and worse to see that, to see that excuse, and to see our Congress accept it as legitimate and accept it as an apology, and to accept silence as a form of acceptance. I could not allow that to stand.
Which is why I'm rising today to raise this point of personal privilege.
And I do not need Rep. Yoho to apologize to me. Clearly, he does not want to. Clearly, when given the opportunity, he will not. And I will not stay up late at night waiting for an apology from a man who has no remorse over calling women and using abusive language towards women. But what I do have issue with is using women, our wives and daughters, as shields and excuses for poor behavior. Mr. Yoho mentioned that he has a wife and two daughters. I am two years younger than Mr. Yoho's youngest daughter. I am someone's daughter too. My father, thankfully, is not alive to see how Mr. Yoho treated his daughter. My mother got to see Mr. Yoho's disrespect on the floor of this House towards me on television. And I am here because I have to show my parents that I am their daughter and that they did not raise me to accept abuse from men.
Now, what I am here to say is that this harm that Mr. Yoho levied — tried to levy — against me was not just an incident directed at me, but when you do that to any woman, what Mr. Yoho did was give permission to other men to do that to his daughters. In using that language in front of the press, he gave permission to use that language against his wife, his daughters, women in his community, and I am here to stand up to say that is not acceptable.
I do not care what your views are. It does not matter how much I disagree or how much it incenses me or how much I feel that people are dehumanizing others. I will not do that myself. I will not allow people to change and create hatred in our hearts. And so what I believe is that having a daughter does not make a man decent. Having a wife does not make a decent man. Treating people with dignity and respect makes a decent man. And when a decent man messes up, as we all are bound to do, he tries his best and does apologize. Not to save face, not to win a vote. He apologizes genuinely to repair and acknowledge the harm done. So that we can all move on.
Lastly, what I want to express to Mr. Yoho is gratitude. I want to thank him for showing the world that you can be a powerful man and accost women. You can have daughters and accost women without remorse. You can be married and accost women. You can take photos and project an image to the world of being a family man and accost women without remorse and with a sense of impunity. It happens every day in this country. It happened here on the steps of our nation's Capitol. It happens when individuals who hold the highest office in this land admit — admit — hurting women and using this language against all of us.
But once again I thank my colleagues for joining us today.
Published with permission of The American Independent Foundation.